Let us consider for a moment the properties of that useful lubricant, WD-40. The WD stands for water displacement. In other words, where WD-40 is, water can't be.
So what does this have to do with relationships and marriage? Well, some relationships are like WD-40. They are literally taking up the space in your life that might otherwise be occupied by the pure water of a relationship leading to holy matrimony. These relationships not only are not leading to marriage, but are displacing any relationships which might lead to marriage.
How can you recognize a WD-40 relationship? WD-40 relationships can go on for years with no marriage in sight. If you look at this person...and just don't see marriage material, perhaps due to immaturity, addictions, religious incompatibility, seeming inability to be a good parent, or other reasons, then it's time to stop displacing a relationship which could actually lead to marriage. It's time to break up.
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